Monday 4 June 2012

Rule 5

Today is a new day. A new life lesson im here to tell you.

The thing about us girls is ..well we're bitches ..no offence to us but its true! We manipulate,we lie and we gossip. Sometimes about the ones closest to us. You know as well as i do that we don't like being vulnerable and when we do let someone in and they are assholes we do what we were born to do bounce back ,act like we don't care and get revenge(my personal favourite) So when we do all the above the most important thing brings me to....

Rule 5: When in the Rebound State...don't step over the line..it never ends well!

Sunday 3 June 2012

Rule 4

I know I said I wouldn't post anymore but my cable is gone :( so here i am again writing another post for all 13 people who viewed my page today

this rule is a simple one but i can not yet follow it

Rule 4:Don't hate being single 


I do hate being single maybe because i love being loved or whatever but for anyone who has mastered the joy of being single ..please comment and tell me how the hell you do it when all of your group are in relationships except for you

Rule 3

Okay i have gone a bit overboard today on the posts but its raining outside so what else am i gonna do?
this is the third and last one for today.

We all make mistakes.. that's why i made this blog to tell you mine and how i dealt with them and hopefully  stop a few people making the same ones i did.Today my "rules" are based upon relationships and love.

Trust is a big deal. Having trust in someone is the hardest and easiest thing for a person to do. There are many definitions of "Trust" in the dictionary. I picked "Trust is the ability for a person to rely on another person for strength and hope,it is to have the confidence in someone and to believe in them.


This isn't really a rule more of a warning.Trusting someone is hard . I myself have difficulty in trusting someone completely.Some would call me damaged goods. But Im not writing this to tell people my sob story. No I'm writing this to say Trust is like love..it's precious and can be broke easily and sometimes cannot be repaired

Rule 3: Try to trust the people you love..if you can't there must be a reason for that for trust is the most important thing in a relationship without it , it will in the end fail.  

Rule 2

Being Dumped
It sucks..am i right? 
and there is no cure for the after blues of being dumped and even if you weren't like totally in love with them..the humiliation of rejection and the sympathy and whispers that come along with it are killer.
So when i was (dare i say it) dumped by someone i had to find a way to get back at them(Im just a sucker for revenge) i decided to be a slut and have fun and show i wasn't moping in my house alone
Rule2: After a breakup DO NOT be a slut(At least not in public) or everyone will think your damaged goods and your slutty ways were the reason you got dumped.

Now im not saying don't go out there and have a rebound fling. Im just warning you that pics all over facebook of you mauling a less than average guy isn't the best way to announce your back on the market

Rule 1

Okay so obviously this rule is a given.But i do wonder does anyone take it seriously. I didnt before and trust me it never ends well.

1:Never ever go after your ex-boyfriends best friend as a way of getting revenge.


I did this a while ago..and i ended up falling for the best friend and he shoved it back in my face. Just as much as a douchebag as my ex was !